How to Get Motivated to Exercise (and Stick With It)

The expression ‘easier said than done’ first appeared in print in the 15th century. Today, it can easily apply to everything from parenting to taxes to exercise. Exercise is another prime example. As a registered counsellor, I often hear from guys who struggle to find the time, energy, or motivation to get active.

Most people know that exercise is good for you. The hard part is actually getting started and keeping it going when motivation fades. The secret is finding a reason that matters to you and making movement a regular part of your life—even when it feels hard.

Here’s how to kickstart your motivation, and why it’s worth it.

Struggling to get moving? Try these motivation hacks

Start small — really small

A five-minute walk counts. Starting is the hardest part. Running a marathon, losing 30 pounds or getting six-pack abs are impressive goals, but it can take a lot of work to stay focused on achievements that may be months or even years in the making.

When you focus on a long-term end goal, it’s too easy to say, “I failed”, or “This is never going to work,” and then you won’t want to do it anymore. Don’t set yourself up for a pass or fail.

Instead, focus on short-term exercise goals by the day or week. For example, instead of a goal to lose 30 pounds in three months, set a goal to exercise three days per week for 15 minutes the first month, four days per week for the second month and five days per week for the third month. 

Build up your workouts slowly and celebrate your achievements along the way.

Use the power of routine

Doing anything consistently turns actions into norms in your life. You develop pathways in the brain that reinforce repeating the behaviour, so it becomes an action you do with little effort. Start with something easy, like a 15-minute walk three times a week. And when you get mastery over that routine, challenge yourself a bit more.

Find an activity you enjoy

Gyms are designed and equipped for exercise, so if that motivates you to get active, keep doing what you’re doing. For guys who prefer to exercise elsewhere, there is no shortage of indoor and outdoor activities that combine physical activity with enjoyment. 

Off the top of my head, there’s cycling, hiking, pickleball, baseball, or horseshoes. Anything that gets you outside and moving your body will do!

Turn up the tunes 

It’s no surprise that listening to music can help you enjoy exercise more. Research shows it can improve your athletic performance and make exercise feel easier to do.

Be prepared

Fill a backpack with exercise gear and put it beside your front door. Or put your running shoes by the bed and weights around the house where you’ll see them. You’ll never be caught unprepared, and it’ll remind you to get moving. Think of it as a “trigger” for your new healthy habit!

Make it social

Why not trade pub hangouts for evening hikes, bike rides, or runs? According to research from the University of Pennsylvania, sweating it out with a friend can lead to more weight loss than going solo. Not only is it motivating to have a workout buddy, but it also helps to hold you accountable.

Working out with a group of people–even if you don’t know them (yet)–is a great way to get your body moving while expanding your social circle. 

Set a schedule and stick to it

Schedule time for getting active in your calendar and treat it as a non-negotiable commitment, much like a medical appointment or meeting with co-workers. If you had planned to exercise outdoors and it gets cancelled due to bad weather, you’ve already set the time aside, so you can easily pivot and do your workout indoors.

Make technology work for you

Most smartphones have built-in accelerometers or pedometers that track your daily steps. Use these features to motivate yourself to move a little more each day. At the same time, dozens of free (or cheap) smartphone apps help you track, monitor, and motivate yourself in your fitness goals. Here are five keepers.

Find your reason — it makes moving easier

Figuring out why movement matters to you is what keeps you lacing up your shoes on the days you’d rather not. When motivation dips, having a clear reason can make all the difference. Here are some common motivators — and how exercise helps you get there.

To feel better — mentally and emotionally

As a mental health counsellor, this one is close to my heart. Sweating it out — especially outdoors — can ease stress, calm your mind, and disrupt negative thought patterns. Plus, hitting exercise goals boosts confidence and self-esteem.

Regular exercise tones your muscles, boosts metabolism, and helps maintain a healthy weight — all of which help you look and feel more fit.

To sleep better and wake up feeling refreshed

Regular physical activity can help you sleep longer, improve sleep quality, and decrease the time it takes to fall asleep by prepping your body for a good snooze. That said, it’s best to avoid strenuous activities (other than sex) close to bedtime.

To sharpen your focus and perform better at work

Problem-solving, memory, and concentration all improve following physical activity because of a chemical called brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF). 

There’s also evidence that parts of the brain grow as people get fitter, which delivers longer-term brain benefits. People who regularly get active have been proven to be more productive at work, think more creatively, and are less likely to make mistakes than those who aren’t active.

To keep up with your kids (and life)

For one thing, exercise improves cardiovascular endurance and stamina. For another, it helps with everything from healing injuries to fighting colds by contributing to a healthy immune system and reducing inflammation.

And, finally, moving your body increases mood and energy-boosting neurotransmitters like dopamine, serotonin and norepinephrine.  

To enjoy better sex

Extra energy and looking and feeling good all support bedroom bliss, of course, and exercise has also been shown to boost the body’s production of the hormone testosterone, which fuels the male sex drive.To protect your health and live longer

Exercise reduces the risk and severity of heart disease, some forms of cancer, arthritis, prediabetes and type 2 diabetes, and muscle and bone injuries. 

Keep your eyes on the prize

Remember that roadblocks will pop up along the way. The key to overcoming them is to stay motivated by focusing on your “why.” This also means being flexible and resourceful. If you missed a gym workout because you had to pick up the kids, play road hockey with them after dinner instead. 

And if all you have the time or energy for is to go outside for a walk around the block, it still counts. Don’t make it hard on yourself. It doesn’t need to be all or nothing when reaping the benefits of moving more.

Dr. Leigh Vanderloo, the Scientific Direction of ParticipACTION offered some valuable advice in a Don’t Change Much podcast, “Something’s better than nothing. More is always better. You have to understand that whatever activity you’re choosing to do has to work for your current life…Try to find ways to overcome those particular challenges and to prioritize moving as something as a ‘need to have’ rather than a ‘nice to have’. ”

What are your biggest barriers to exercise? Let’s start a conversation in the comments below!

Park far away, take the stairs and move more for Men’s Health Month this June.

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